Sunday, June 19, 2011

June birthdays . . .





Someone said this was almost like Christmas!  waiting for little Bella or little Audri to open a package and Papa to read cards and discover the gift card.  The afternoon was fun.  Most of the family was around to watch and enjoy.  There were gifts galore. 

And, maybe not a part
 of the traditional birthday photo shoot, it was.
It was a part of the birthday shoot. 
You look good in that vibrant sombero!
Good pic and Happy 32nd birthday!



home grounds


the south garden. 
This is mostly the Veggie Garden.


orange day lilies
in what I call the cottage garden.



the cottage garden
with little chairs and fish and latterns and beaded trees. 


I can't choose a favorite! 
Thank goodness, my life doesn't depend on it! 






Sunday, June 12, 2011

Writer's Block



Don't know what happened.  For years.  And years.  And years!  I wrote a weekly letter.  Then I blogged and still wrote a weekly letter.  Then Facebook came along.  Now I don't write letters and I don't blog.  Is there a connection?  Do I keep in touch with everyone, know what they are doing through Facebook so that I'm not motivated to write and blog?  I have been thinking on this subject and trying to analyze what is going on. 

I think that maybe email and Facebook has removed the motivation to write.   I know I still want to write down events and recollections and memories so that they will be there when I need reminded -- will be there when I want to reminisce.  I'm so glad I have my dad's written memories and stories and that makes me think I want to leave my writings behind for my posterity.
On the other hand, I just wonder if I've gone through a dry spell.  I hope this is the case as I really did enjoy putting my thoughts, memories and opinions into the written medium.  I'm hoping the block that has kept me from writing, dissolves so that I can take up where I left off.

I have a need to record Bella and Audri's toddlerhood as I did the first five.  Years down the line, they will read the letters and entries about the older grandchildren and will wonder why Nana didn't write about them.  I want them to know I enjoyed their babyhood and toddler's years as much as the older five. 



Somewhere I have read that an author just has to "write through" a writer's block.  So that's what I'm going to try.  If you read a lot of drivel and boring stuff on here, just remind yourself that Nana is trying to "write through" that block.  There will be better days ahead!



On the other hand, maybe if I were just to clean off this desk and clear away some distraction, the writing might come easier? 





Monday, May 02, 2011

Today's the day the Little Ones had their Picnic!




If you go out in the woods today
You're sure of a big surprise.
If you go out in the woods today
You'd better go in disguise.


For every bear that ever there was
Will gather there for certain, because
Today's the day the teddy bears have their picnic.

Beneath the trees, where nobody sees
They'll hide and seek as long as they please
Today's the day the teddy bears have their picnic

The little teddy bears are having a lovely time today.
Watch them, catch them unawares,
And see them picnic on their holiday.
See them gaily dance about.


 They love to play and shout.
And never have any cares.
At six o'clock their mommies and daddies
Will take them home to bed
Because they're tired little teddy bears.

If you go out in the woods today,
You'd better not go alone.
It's lovely out in the woods today,
But safer to stay at home.


For every bear that ever there was
Will gather there for certain, because
Today's the day the teddy bears have their picnic


Every teddy bear, that's been good
Is sure of a treat today
There's lots of wonderful things to eat
And wonderful games to play


Bella Bu!  You get down right now!

Beneath the trees, where nobody sees
They'll hide and seek as long as they please
Today's the day the teddy bears have their picnic



Birthday Girls


Can you believe it?  12 and 8 years.  These girls are 12 and 8.  Really, it seems just like yesterday that Morghan was on the way and now she's 12 and Maddie Mae, 8 years. 




It is really true.  The older you get, the faster time goes . . . and I want it to slow down so I can enjoy and savor and wallow in my grandchildrens' youth.  

All of them.  Forever and a day.  Until they are married and have children of their own.  So I'm going to live until I'm a crotchety old Nana, at 99.  I've got the crotchety down, PaPa says.  So now I've got to stay young at heart and strong in body.  Those two attributes are works in progress. 

Morghan's cake had the appropriate amount of Bling for a girl of Morghan's age and nature.  Madeline's cake was adorable but I chose this photo because she was so pleased with the money in her card.  She truly wasn't expecting that money.  She was totally surprised and greatly appreciative of the money in her card.  And yet, I think she gets her age in dollars in her card every year.  Sweetie. 

Tony had a birthday too and now we are looking towards June . . . three in June and one in July and several in August.  We've got much to look forward too . . . and much to celebrate.  and much to be thankful for. 

And I do and we will and I thank the Lord for kind and generous children and their spouses who give of their time and good will and lively, healthy, appreciative grandchildren -- and good health and good times and good fortune . . . for us all. 

                                                                          clink, clink . . . Cheers!
                                                                                              love, Nana




Saturday, April 16, 2011

bits and pieces


 I love the little bits and pieces I find or have delivered to me by little folks.


I love the creativity. 


Imagination and free forming thinking is alive and well in this young generation!


Even before they can write, they create. 



Brother Gary gave me this little autograph from my Gramma Mattie so it would be kept and treasured.  Gramma had great penmanship and I do treasure her signature.  That's not Gramma in the photo tho -- that's her In-Laws.  They are Austins.



Little boys are more prone to leave me pictures of things . . .
cars and dinasaurs and space rockets and such. 


I love this!  I want that discount! 



Imagination runs rampant in little boys sometimes, especially with dinasaurs and outer space and air planes.


This note, tho, breaks my heart.  I found this in Mom's room at the nursing home and recognize the handwriting.  It is my Mama's for sure.  I imagine this was one of the last times she was able to write her own name.  But I know she's well and strong and practicing her penmanship again!  For the last month, I have smelled cigarette smoke.  At first I wondered.  Why?  What is going on.  Am I losing it?  I think I've figured it out.  It must be Dad's way of letting me know that all is well and that Mama's back in his arms again. 

PS:  is that cigarette smoke again . . .

                                                                          signed, Call Me Crazy






Thursday, March 03, 2011

Go Look It Up!

Even with spell-check and my favorite old standby, that big blue book I was always sending you to as a child, the Webster's NewWord Dictionary with Student Handbook at my left elbow, I still skip over to Dictionary.com occassionally.  I did the other evening, just to double check my definition of "consternation".  I knew how I used it.  I knew how I wanted to use it . . . just thought I better look that up real quick because once in a while, some word I think I know, I don't. 




While I was at Dictionary.com, I noticed they post a little quick question at the top of each page . . . and it hooked me.  I fell Hook, Line and Sinker and off I went surfing for 20 or 30 minutes not accomplishing much of anything but sure enjoying myself as I learned some new tidbits.  I think I only really knew the answer to one of these questions.  Here they are.  I hope you enjoy perusing these as well as I did! 




1) Did you know: Emma, the No. 2 most-popular girl's name, is a version of what less well-known name?

2) Did you know:  Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis is our longest word. What does it mean?

3) Did you know: Dr. Seuss actually has a real name, and it does have a slightly wacky feel to it.

4) Did you know: You look for a Web page and it says "Error 404 Not Found." What do the numbers mean?

5) Did you know: If sleep walking is somnambulism, what is it called when you talk in your sleep?

6) Did you know: Is there a word for the individual prongs of a fork ?

7) Did you know: What does the "X" stand for in x-ray?

8) Did you know: What's the technical term for couples who call each other names like honey bunny?

9) Did you know: Scrabble is a fun game, but what is the not-so-fun definition of "to scrabble?".

10) Did you know: Pakistan, Afghanistan. What does the -stan at the end of so many countries mean?


Dictionary.com's answers are below.  If you don't like the answer, take it up with the Dictionary! 


1) Emma:  a form of Erma

2) Pneumonoultramicroscopics etc! . . . A facetious word alleged to mean 'a lung disease caused by the inhalation of very fine silica dust' but occurring chiefly as an instance of a very long word." [OED]

3) Dr. Seuss:  Seuss, Dr.,  pseud. of Theodor Seuss Geisel

4) four-oh-four definition or 404:  the answer to your question is unknown; the location you seek is unknown. (From the internet message: Error - 404 that is received when the internet cannot find the address you are seeking.) Q: Where's the kitchen? A: 404. You'll have to find it yourself.

5) Som*nil"o*quence\, n. The act of talking in one's sleep; somniloquism.


6)  tine:  a sharp, projecting point or prong, as of a fork. (hey, I knew this one!)

7)  1896, translation of Ger. X-strahl, from X, algebraic symbol for an unknown quantity, + Strahl (pl. Strahlen) "beam, ray." Coined 1895 by Ger. scientist Wilhelm Conrad Röntgen (1845-1923), who discovered them.

8)  hy·poc·o·rism   /haɪˈpÉ’kəˌrɪzÉ™m, 1. a pet name. 2. the practice of using a pet name.  3. the use of forms of speech imitative of baby talk, especially by an adult.

9)  1. to scratch or scrape, as with the claws or hands. 2. to grapple or struggle with or as if with the claws or hands. 3. to scrawl; scribble.

10)  -stan
"country," source of place names such as Afghanistan, Pakistan , etc., from Persstan "country,"  (well, I guessed "land" so I was close this time!)


Let me see, better double check a few:  peruse:  to read through with thoroughness or care: to peruse a report.  I do know this word and use it -- it just always seems wrong! 

Whoa!  Hook, Line and Sinker!  Dictionary.com, Ask.com and the Thesaurus all turned their noses up at "hook, line and sinker!  They declined to divulge.  So I Googled the expression and came up with an answer at thefreedictionary.com -- Hook, Line and Sinker:  Etymology: based on the idea of a fish so hungry it swallows the hook (the part that catches the fish), the line ( the string) and the sinker (a weight attached to the line to keep it under water)

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Disbelief

I am shocked and filled with consternation that no one has commented, scolded, protested or other wise noticed my new photo header! 

Guess you all knew I was trying to start a hallabaloo, didn't you?

Erica Jo Hofmeister Frey, 3-2-1973


7 lb 3 oz newborn baby girl, Erica Jo
                                                                                                                                                                                      
Erica was a smiley, good natured baby.
Mama wasn't a very good photographer
but I probably had Kristy on my left hip
while I took the photo with my right hand.
And don't you just want to kiss them fat cheeks
or tickle that fat little neck!



Josi, maybe a bit of a hot rodder!


Josaphina, a potential rock star

She was Gramma's little puddin'

A natural curly headed cutie who took care of business!

Mischievious, with a twinkle in her eye. 



She grew lovely, tall and dark headed; got married and had a family.



May all your days be as happy as this one.
Happy Birthday, Erica Jo!

Many more!

Love, Mom


Thursday, February 17, 2011

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Valentine's Day Card

Himself and I have struggled over the years to get the gift giving, the special occasions down so we know what the other wants and expects for a certain holiday or special occasion.  I reminded Himself recently that for Valentines Day, I really only need a nice Valentines card.  It could be boughten, it could be home made, but I just needed a heart-felt Valentines Day Card.

About 10 am Monday morning, here came our office manager Deb with a box and these were inside, vase and all. 


Twelve beautiful fresh red roses.  They are just getting more beautiful by the day.

Written inside the accompanying card that says "happy valentine's day" on the outside, is "here is your card!!" 

Wow, what a card! 
I love you too!  your "girl"


Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Repurpose


I like the word "repurpose".  Although I wasn't using the word yet when we had III, where we were living rustic and repurposing logs and pans and tables and buckets and making a water drain out of a piece of pipe and shelves out of branches, we were repurposing.  There are other words that go right along with repurpose -- like recycle, reuse, rerun, redo.  I like them all too.  In fact, I'm sure I've posted before:

Use it up
Wear it out
Make it do
or do without.

This was a long ago motto.  Maybe it has been around forever but I think of it as coming out of the Great Depression or World War II.  I grew up with it as a way of life. 

My Mama didn't drain the potato water down the sink drain.  She kept it in a bowl and used it to mash the potatoes instead of milk. Milk was better left for growing children.  Mama used the paper off the stick of oleo that went in the cookie dough, to grease the cookie sheet.  Left over mashed potatoes became potato patties and left over boiled potatoes became fried potatoes.  Left over stale bread was turned into bread pudding or dressing or even fed to the birds. But never thrown out in the trash. 

My Mama cut buttons off of old worn out shirts.  This was after the shirts outlived being a "good" shirt.  A shirt or dress went from being "good" and going to town, school or work to being "everyday".  Everyday shirts might be patched and miss a button but they were there to put on after school, to wear to the garden or to do the laundry.  Ever day saved your "good" shirt for better things. 

After a shirt was demoted from "ever day" it became a rag.  Mama (or her daughters) cut the buttons off and ideally removed the thread and any fabric stuck to that button.  The buttons went in the button box to be used later.  The shirt went into the rag bag at the bottom of the boys' closet.   Someday I'll write about the rags in the rag bag and what all those rags were repurposed for but for now, I better stick to this subject.

My Mama bought laundry soap in the big round economy box and every wastebasket in our house started life as a box of soap.  One girl or another would need a 4-H or rainy day project and out would come the ALL detergent box and the patterned contact paper and soon there was a color-coordinated waste basket for whatever room was needing one!  Repurposed strikes again!

Newspapers were repurposed big-time.  Newspapers became pirate hats, drawer liners, mats for muddy wet boots and they also lined the bottom of Petey the canary's cage.  Newspapers were, of course, a source for the "current event" that your social studies teacher requested each week.  Newspapers were used to start fires, wrap coffee grounds and potato peelings.  Folks paid good money for those newspapers and they were bound to get their money back out of them.  I know my folks did.

White butcher paper that came home clean from the grocery store could be saved for art projects.  When I was small, JC Penney's often wrapped your purchases and tied them up securely with a nice long piece of string.  When you got home and unwrapped the packages, you got the ball of string already on hand, tied the new string onto the leading end and rolled it all back up together.  The ball of string was an indicator of the economy.  The better the economy, the better the shopping.  With more shopping there was more string.  So a big ball of string meant a good economy and a little ball of string meant no money to spend! 

Shoe boxes were always saved and had a gazillion uses.  They were used as drawer dividers, paper files, containers for small toys and paper dolls, They were used to organize my Mama's kitchen and my Dad's garage.  Even with nine children, 2 adults and 22 feet at home, we never had enough shoe boxes.  Of course, even with all those feet we usually only each had one new pair of shoes a year -- so only eleven new shoe boxes per year.  No wonder there was a shoe box shortage!

Match boxes, wooden spools, bread wrapper twist ties, rubber bands, orange juice cans, glass jars -- the "to save" list goes on and on.  Now, after all this, you might be wondering where I'm headed and why I have prominently displayed a picture of a lady with curlers in her hair? 



When I was in high school, it was fashionable to have long, long hair.  Some girls liked the straight, "ironed" look and some of us wanted a little body in that long mop top.  If you remember the pink foam or the pink plastic rollers, they weren't very big and if you had wrapped your head full of those little curlers, you would have looked like the naturally curly red-headed step child with hair uncontained and curling in all directions. 



Something larger was needed.  Large rollers or curlers that would give body but no frizz or curl and that was when we went to our Mama's surplus item box and dug out all the condensed orange juice cans.  Now, they would have been washed and both ends cut out.  With clean, mostly dry hair, you would roll it up and secure the cans with a super duper hair pin or two.  Girls were known to suffer sleepless nights with a head-full orange-juice cans . . . but oh how nice to get up the next morning, shake the cans and the hair out and have all that straightened hair with body! 



Probably had used cans in my hair before Mary's wedding
(that's little Audri . . . no no!  that's little flower girl Sheila!)



And I am just pretty certain I would have had big fat orange juice cans in my hair before this picture.  See how smooth and buoyant that long hair is!   The weight of it pulled out all the "curl" -- except at the very ends.